When You Can't Trust Your Husband, This Is The Specialized Help You Need
At Betrayal Trauma Recovery, we recognize the profound impact of your husband’s betrayal. Every member of our organization has both personal and professional experience.
Many professionals, including therapists and clergy, may not be adequately trained to identify and address the lies, gaslighting, anger, and exploitation you’re experiencing.
We provide the specialized care you need to create emotional safety and find peace.
BTR podcast
The Betrayal Trauma Recovery weekly podcast shares stories from women dealing with their husband’s lies, cheating, abusive behavior, and other betrayals like secret pornography use.
If you just found out you can’t trust your husband, we’re here for you.
BTR Group Sessions
No woman deserves the pain of betrayal or the trauma that follows—emotionally or financially. If you’re feeling isolated or overwhelmed by your husband’s lies, anger, manipulation, and infidelity, we’ll help you right away.
Whether he’s an addict, narcissist, or simply acting cruel, you don’t have to face this alone.
We have multiple BTR.ORG Group Sessions a day, in every time zone.
BTR Living Free Workshop
The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop provides thought, communication, and boundary strategies to heal through emotional safety.
At Betrayal Trauma Recovery, We Get It
Every woman on our team has experienced betrayal trauma.
We’ve all suffered from Betrayal Trauma due to his lies, manipulation, gaslighting, and counter-parenting.
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Founder & Executive Director
Anne Blythe, M.Ed.
- Producer & Host of the The BTR.ORG Podcast
- Author of #1 best selling author of the book Trauma Mama Husband Drama
- Creator of the groundbreaking Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop
Anne is a dedicated advocate for women navigating the complexities of betrayal trauma. Over the course of seven years in her marriage and eight years post-divorce, Anne endured ongoing betrayals and emotional, psychological abuse.
Determined to find clarity and solutions, she conducted over 300 interviews with trauma survivors—both in person and on her podcast.
By asking the right questions, Anne identified consistent patterns of trauma and developed actionable strategies for emotional safety.
She didn’t stop there—she became her own test subject, applying these strategies to protect herself and her children. Anne refined these strategies through mentoring women from all walks of life—whether married, separated, or divorced—confirming their universal effectiveness.
Armed with a Master’s Degree in Curriculum and Instruction, Anne channeled her expertise into his groundbreaking Living Free Workshop that gives women with practical emotional safety strategies tailored to their unique circumstances.
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Betrayal Trauma Knows No Borders
The BTR.ORG Podcast educates women all over the world about issues related to trust and betrayal, specifically emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion.
At BTR.ORG, we affirm that abuse is a human rights issue, affecting the lives of all people, regardless of age, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, class, religion, and any other differentiating characteristics.
We acknowledge and hold pain for all people suffering from the effects of abuse. Because abuse is such a wide-spread issue, we focus our efforts by only serving adult women abused by men in romantic relationships.
We understand that the pronouns that we use, as well as the subject matter that we cover may not be completely relevant to all victims.
However, we invite those victims who fall outside the scope of our services to contact their local domestic abuse services.
The BEST support for healing from betrayal trauma.
Hear stories of resilience and find hope again.
Anne Blythe, M.Ed. Produces & Hosts an episode each week.
Guests include victims who have learned they can’t trust their husband. These women courageously share the stories of when they discovered his infidelity, porn use, and deceit. Anne also interviews advocates/experts in related fields.
Tune in on your favorite podcasting platform, including Apple Podcasts and Spotify.
The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast is currently entirely free to listeners.
All episodes are transcribed.
Release schedule
Weekly episodes are released every Tuesday and available for download.
Accessibility
Every episode is available in audio and written form (transcription) on BTR.ORG. Our website is ADA compliant.
Financial Support
Advocates can Support the Podcast by making a recurring monthly donation.
Hands Down The Best Abuse Podcast
Anne does an incredible job exposing abuse, especially the subtleties and the underlying belief systems that allow abuse to fly under the radar. She has a lineup of guests, including well-known experts, that leave no stone unturned. Episode by episode the picture of abuse becomes crystal clear, empowering survivors to take steps toward safety.
If you can’t trust your husband, Anne is the person to turn to. She knows exactly what to do.
BTR Offers Hope
Navigating life after abuse is difficult and it’s hard to know what is real and normal after leaving abuse. BTR talks about the hard and yet offers hope that it is possible to overcome what was done to us and that it doesn’t have to negatively impact the rest of our life.
Clears So Many Things Up
So thankful for this podcast. I found BTR through Insta and after a year or more of not being sure if I wanted to contront myself with difficult truths by listening to the podcast. But I finally did last week. I’m so thankful and so relieved. Why on earth did I wait so long? I’m not insane or stupid! Anne explains and talks through so many facets of betrayal, so well and brings clarity to so many thoughts that were just running in circles. This is so fascinating.
Essential Conversations
I am very recently out of a long term abusive marriage. I did not realize I was being abused. What I’ve learned is that I’m not alone. There are a lot of women in abusive relationships who don’t understand what’s happening or, like me, were told by a couple’s therapist that I should be doing things differently and it’s half my fault. I kept believing the lies and trying harder. When I found this podcast it was so validating. It was literally describing exactly what I was going htrough and labeling it as abuse. The conversations on the podcast are vital because I spent years going to different therapists and reading books and not until I found BTR did anyone explain how using porn can be abuse, or how gaslighting is abuse, or how maintaining false promises is abuse. The podcast really shook me out of the fog of confusion I was being kept in by my abuesr and gave me tools and changed my life.
Thank You
Thank you for helping women who have been in emotionally and sexually abusive marriages and for calling out pornography as abusive. Thank you.
Group Sessions
Heal in community. Our Group Sessions, led by our expert coaches, offer a safe and empathetic space for women. Join us from anywhere in the world and feel the power of shared experience and mutual support.
Connect with other women who understand. Our group support sessions, led by experienced coaches, offer a safe and empathetic community for women healing from betrayal trauma. Wherever you are, you can find support and validation. New members often tell us how welcomed and understood they feel from their very first day.
Our coaches guide and support you on your healing journey. Through our group support sessions, they create a safe and empathetic space for women to connect, share, and find strength in community. Wherever you are, you can access this vital support and experience the validation and understanding you deserve.
Betrayal trauma can leave you feeling isolated and alone. Our group support sessions offer a powerful antidote. Led by compassionate coaches, these groups provide a safe and validating space for women healing from the devastating impact of betrayal. Connect with others who understand, share your story, and find strength in community. Wherever you are, our groups offer a pathway to healing and emotional well-being.
BTR.org support is available everywhere you need us
Our podcast, our workshops, our group and individual support sessions are accessible to our clients from any device, anywhere
Daily
More than 20 sessions per week in YOUR time zone.
Affordable
Over 92 live, face-to-face group support sessions for only $125 per month.
Flexible
Convenient, online sessions.
Attend on your computer or phone, from your car, your closet…anywhere.
How Do Our Group Sessions Work?
This video will answer all of your questions about BTR Group Support.
Anywhere you are, BTR provides professional, experienced support for women healing from betrayal trauma.
Individual Sessions
Betrayal trauma is overwhelming and isolating. You may be struggling with a range of difficult emotions – confusion, anger, and grief.
Through Individual Sessions with our experienced coaches, you’ll experience non-judgemental support to explore the complexities of betrayal trauma and find healing in emotional safety.
The aftermath of betrayal trauma can be overwhelming. You may be struggling with a range of difficult emotions – confusion, anger, grief, and a profound sense of broken trust. The pain can feel isolating, and the path to healing unclear. You might find it challenging to navigate the complexities of betrayal, addiction, manipulation, or abuse on your own. The journey to emotional safety and peace can feel long and daunting.
Individual support sessions offer a dedicated space for personalized healing. Our experienced coaches provide compassionate guidance and support, walking with you every step of the way. They understand the nuances of betrayal trauma and offer tailored strategies to help you process your emotions, develop coping mechanisms, and rebuild your life with strength and resilience. In these one-on-one sessions, you’ll find a safe and non-judgmental environment to explore your unique experiences and work towards lasting peace.
Through individual coaching, you can understand the dynamics of abuse, learn to set healthy boundaries and regain your self-confidence.
Take the first step towards healing and reclaim your life. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and begin your journey to emotional well-being.
We're everywhere you need us
Our podcast, our workshops, our group and individual support sessions are accessible to our clients from any device, anywhere
How do INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS WORK?
This video will answer all of your questions about BTR Individual Sessions.
Workshops
Our Workshops provide strategies for safety from betrayal, relief from his chaos whether you’re still married or experiencing post separation abuse.
Learn the strategies to replace his chaos with peace.
Our Workshops
Strategies to Heal
The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop uses tested strategies to heal from betrayal in marriage. Whether your married, separated, or divorced, discover how to find clarity, peace, and freedom from betrayal in your marriage.
Struggling with Post Separation Abuse?
If you’re exhausted from his post separation abuse The BTR.ORG Message Workshop will give you some practical tools to put more space between you and his chaos.
Available to women who have completed The Living Free Workshop.
Heal From The Inside
Healing from betrayal doesn’t have to include thousands of dollars in therapy fees to therapists who don’t understand the ongoing emotional and psychological abuse you’re experiencing. Meditation can heal betrayal trauma from the inside out without victim blaming.
At Betrayal Trauma Recovery, We Get It
Every woman on our team has experienced betrayal trauma.
We’ve all suffered from Betrayal Trauma due to his lies, manipulation, gaslighting, and counter-parenting.
The Right Focus
Therapy focuses on “fixing” your problems.
But when it comes to post separation abuse, the ONLY problem is your abusive husband (or ex). Focus on effective strategies to get away from his abuse.
We Get It - Immediately
Don’t waste time trying to explain what is happening or educate your therapist, clergy, or custody evaluator about post separation abuse.
You need help now! These tools will help you immediately.
Professional Support
If you need support implementing the tools in your messages, attend a BTR Group Session or schedule an Individual Session. BTR Coaches are trained on how to write strategic messages.
Safety and Healing
Women who have a safe network of support get through the fog of lies and manipulation more quickly – saving themselves years of pain and confusion.
Forever Access
Once you enroll, you’ll have access forever. You can watch the videos and read the samples as many times as you need to.
Take it at your own pace.
No Stigmas
Because every woman in our community has experienced post separation abuse, we all get it. You’ll be validated and loved – not blamed.
So validating, powerful, and relevant. I NEEDED THIS. Every woman who has been betrayed by her husband needs this. Why isn’t anyone else teaching this stuff? How did I even function before BTR??
We Understand Betrayal Trauma
Many professionals don’t recognize the emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion that come with betrayal in marriage.
They see both parties as equally unhealthy. They can’t see that his lies, manipulation, and blame is abuse.
MEET OUR COACHES
All of our Betrayal Trauma Coaches are trained, certified, and have personal experience.
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Coach Elia
Coach Elia has over 20 years professional experience. She provides clarity, non-judgement, and unwavering support for women experiencing betrayal trauma.
As a survivor of psychological, emotional, and financial abuse herself, Coach Elia deeply understands the pain, confusion and fear that women experience when confronted with lies, deceit and manipulation in an intimate partner relationship.
Elia’s honest, compassionate approach helps clients accept their current reality, free themselves from self-blame, guilt and remorse, and build inner strength and confidence – whether they choose to remain in the relationship or move toward separation or divorce.
Coach Elia has a BA from Texas Tech University and a Master’s Degree from the University of Hawaii. She is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach (CDC) and a Certified Transformation and Mindset Life Coach (CLC), with expertise supporting women navigating trauma responses that feel misaligned with their core values.
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Coach Jen
Coach Jen has over 25 years experience. She understands first-hand what women who are on this betrayal journey endure.
Her approach to life (and coaching:) is truly understanding the challenges that come with betrayal, its ups and downs, and its significant effects on the mental and physical health of survivors. Jen recognizes the importance of empathy, compassion, and laughter. She firmly believes in the influence of womanhood to re-discover personal power, strengthen bodies, heal hearts, and live to one’s full purpose!
As a Board-Certified Coach (BCC), a Certified Resilience Coach (CRC), a Relationship Coaching Specialist (RCS), and a Bachelor’s degree in Education (BS), Jen provides women with a safe space to connect, self-discover, and thrive during their journey to safety.
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Coach Renee
Coach Renee is a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coach with over 25 years experience. She specializes in helping women rediscover their own voice, intuition, and power.
Coach Renee is a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coach with over 25 years experience. She specializes in helping women rediscover their own voice, intuition, and power.
With a gentle and empathic approach, Coach Renee validates every woman’s individual experience as victims of what some people call narcissistic abuse and helps her discover a safe path forward. If the path forward includes separation and divorce, Coach Renee is an experienced Divorce Coach with tools to help any women navigate that process effectively.
Renee is a Veteran of the United States Navy. She has extensive experience dealing with domestic abuse, Intimate Partner Violence and reporting to authorities in both the military and civilian populations. Renee is a Certified Life Coach (CLC), a Certified High Conflict Divorce Coach (HCDCC), a Certified Pre-Mediation Divorce Coach (PMDC), and a Certified Emotional Intelligence Coach.
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Coach Jo
Coach Jo has over 20 years of experience. With an emphasis on encouragement and validation, her goal is to help women find truth and dream again.
Jo has experienced the process of finding your footing again and establishing a career after being a homeschool/stay at home mother. She specializes in creating a plan to move forward based on a survivor’s strengths. With several years experience as a Client Manager in financial services, she also has experience with what it takes to prepare for financial well being when leaving an abusive relationship.
Jo is a Certified Life Coach (CLC), and has taken a course through Divorce Coaches Academy. She also has 10 years experience in the financial planning field.
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Coach Sharon
Sharon is a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coach with over 20 years of experience. She’s passionate about exposing injurious thought patterns caused by spiritual abuse.
As a survivor of psychological and spiritual abuse, and sexual coercion, Sharon is determined to support women to reframe their value and maintain their spiritual footing.
She speaks truth directly, yet compassionately. And she challenges anything that undermines a woman’s ability to see her truth worth.
Sharon has a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and Criminal Justice from University of Massachusetts Boston. Sharon is a Board Certified Coach (BCC).
