Has your husband been emotionally, psychologically, financially, or even physically abusive? If you’re getting divorced and looking to prove abuse in family court, here are 6 steps to take.

You can takes steps to ensure safety, preparation, and peace in the process as much as possible.

If you’re required to prove abuse in family court, enroll in The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free and Message Workshops to learn strategies to help you win.

1. Trying To Prove Abuse In Family Court May Backfire

Sometimes, emotional abuse happens through legal battles once a divorce starts. It can become a long fight that lasts for months or even years and can be very harmful.

Family court can misinterpret your desire for safety, and the abuser will likely claim you’re the one causing problems. Sometimes it’s better to use strategy and not bring up the abuse at all.

You may see the abuser uses the strategy to attack you as an alienator, and that you’ve alienated the children from him. To avoid being accused of being an alienator, use the Living Free and Message Workshop Strategies.

2. When You Can Prove Abuse In Family Court, Sometimes It Doesn’t Matter

It is important to focus on safety in the midst of the trauma and chaos of litigation.

Even though it might not help, it’s important to document everything because it may help.

• Enroll in the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free & Message Workshops.
• Use the Message Workshop strategies to keep communication in writing only.
• Keep communication centered on children.
• Consider using an app or program like Our Family Wizard.
• Be sure to respond appropriately to communication regarding children.

Make sure to interview several attorneys or work with your victim advocate to get an attorney who understands this type of abuse.

If you can’t afford an attorney, try using services for domestic abuse victims in your area.

You can also use a divorce coach to help you through the process. Our coaches at Berayal Trauma Recovery are certified divorce coaches and can help you through the process.

3. Don’t Lean On Your Attorney Or Abuse Advocate For Emotional Support

It’s important to get emotional support from people who understand.

Having a network of empathetic friends and family can make a significant difference in navigating life’s challenges. They offer a listening ear, and provide comfort when trying to prove abuse in family court.

Surrounding yourself with those who truly care not only boosts your resilience but also enhances your overall well-being.

Attend a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Session to get the support you need.