Emotional abuse, affairs, gaslighting, violence, secret porn use, financial abuse and controlling behaviors. With clear indicators that the husband is emotionally abusive, victims ask, “Do I need to separate from my husband?”

Although that’s something only you can decide, here are some things to consider.

1. What Is My Husband’s Character Right Now?

If your husband had an emotionally abusive character, in a nutshell, he doesn’t feel like he has any power in life unless he have power over you (or someone).

A healthy relationship is between two people who derive power from personal responsibility (for themselves).

To determine if your husband has an abusive, exploitative character, enroll in The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop.

2. Separation Doesn’t Have To Mean Divorce

If you determine that your husband’s character is currently emotionally abusive and exploitative, separating from him can give you even more information.

Observing what your husband does while you’re not living in the same house is one of the strategies you’ll learn in The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop. If you’re worried he won’t know what to do if you’re not there to give him direction, the Workshop will give you strategies for that, as most women in this situation feel this way.

3. Is Emotional Safety Your Top Priority?

It’s obvious that protecting your family has been your top priority so far.

However, family is about love and trust. To protect your family, your emotional safety needs to be your top priority. To learn more about why safety is the most important thing, listen to The FREE Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast.

4. Do You Have The Right Support?

Because couple therapy is contraindicated when abuse is involved, it’s important to get support from professionals who understand this type of abuse.

If you’re considering separation and need validating support, attend a Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Session TODAY.